Ed Fernyhough It was most definitely was a peaceful conclusion. I have to excuse all of his irresponsible actions because he has a mental disorder? It is his responsibility to seek help, get better, instead of trying to gain sympathy with stories just to cut them off the next day with no explanation. He full on knew it would hurt me, he 100% was conscious of how much of an asshole he was and continued to do so anyway. You dont know my thought pattern during all of this, how much I blamed myself without even knowing what I may have possibly did. Later, when I knew what was going on, yes it was VERY peaceful to know it was never my problem. If you have an issue with that, you probably have never dealt with a histrionic. Don’t get me wrong, I hope he gets help and can someday make amends to all of the people he has hurt but it’s not my job to constantly be understanding and justify his drama. Why must I, someone who did nothing but care and try to empathize with him face the bullshit he put me through? He’s hurting the one person who had an open mind about him and he completely messed it up. I don’t believe that is fair for me and from what I’m aware of, he is still out there manipulating women to gain whatever it is he wants just to dump them all over again.