Ed Fernyhough First, I appreciate how you explained yourself in the beginning. I agree that all forms of abuse are unacceptable and must be pointed out. I am also glad that you agree that a disorder does not ever excuse someone’s behavior, take serial killers for instance or even pedophiles who are mentally ill and harm others. Extreme example, but you get the idea. Second, I guess we simply have to agree to disagree in terms of my delivery. I found that I was rather open minded and thoughtful when writing this, most people wouldn’t take the time of day to even analyze or understand the man and just write him off as an asshole. I at least, try to understand where he is coming from and what he must be dealing with. I after all, was the only person in his life he felt was genuine with him.